Warm greetings from ThetaGateway. How are we all feeling? Great I trust, but if for some reason you feel confused due to lack of communication, join the club. I tried to “blame” the stars, like Mercury must be Retrograde. Not so, at time of writing. My great astrologer friends would have the answers though.
What happens when we contact people, be that friends, family or business associates and we would like their input in something that's important to us and they don't get back to us for whatever reason?
We have a choice. We can go into anger and frustration, which is fairly normal for most of us. We can stew over it, even do text messages and emails (or letters for those less IT oriented), because our needs are not met. Does that sound familiar? There is a need in most of us to express what we're feeling and to be heard.
The problem is, we still have expectations and attachments to the outcome of our communication. What happens next? We set ourselves up for disappointment and annoyance and therefore out of the flow of Divine Grace.
Best to look at the issue and see where, or what, as it was in my case, that this applies in our lives. In truth, personally, I was procrastinating on making a decision and by tossing it over to a friend for her opinion, my focus changed to lack of communication, which she played really well. Thank you my friend for allowing me to explore this recurring issue. In stead of making a decision, I waited for another‘s input.
Now, the choice is ours, we can stay in that stagnant place and go around in circles or come to a point where we say “this no longer serves me, I want change”. At this point it's really advisable to come from a “heart” space, where one can look at it from a loving aspect and be in truth of what is happening. When coming from a “head” space, we tend to come up with the ”should haves”,” could haves” and our other control issues raise their ugly heads, which are all fear based.
To get into my heart space, I start with putting my left hand (left stands for the feminine, spiritual, receiving part of us) on my heart area. It does help using Reiki, as the Universal Love energy starts flowing immediately. Even without Reiki, it is me connecting in a loving way with me and breathing into that space. We tend to forget to “breathe” when we're not in a space of love
Do remind each other to “breathe” when we see the other in a spot of bother.
Then I ask myself the question; what's really at the heart of this problem/issue and what do I really want/desire? I always get an answer, as I did this time. Then we need to take responsibility and choose differently this time around. A lot of teachings convey this wisdom; one of them being Jeshua's channeled material in the “Way of the Heart”. Too many of us are fearful of change, however, if we make a heartfelt decision that is in total alignment with the Universe, which is what you are when in this heart space, and trust in the God/Creator of All that Is/Source/Holy Spirit energy, only things for our Highest Good happen. It's time to get off the treadmill, so to speak, and move onto the conveyor belt to our next stunning destination. May it be Bliss!
We, Hetty and Annie, at Thetagateway, have many tools to help you get to that space. With level 1 Reiki, you learn to get in touch with that loving you, which is the real you. With Reiki 2, you can tap into your deepest fears by connecting to your Higher Self and have them revealed, clarified and healed. Through ThetaHealing we can help you let go of anger, resentments and negative beliefs which keep you in a space other than love.
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Healing Blessings from both of us.
Author of article is Hetty Driessen - 1st August, 2009